How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You. PART2

>Find someone that's right for you. This is one of the most important steps before trying to make someone fall in love with you. This person needs to be ready for a more serious relationship, they need to be able to cope with the emotional stress of being with another person, and they need to be compatible with you. If they aren’t, you will be wasting your time and theirs and somebody is going to end up with a broken heart. >Get to know them. The first step in getting someone to love you is to get to know them. This doesnt just mean knowing their birthday or where they work or their parent’s names. This means getting to know the real them, who they really are underneath the basic details of their life. This takes time and you need to pay attention and take a real interest, since information like this is often not offered but rather learned through inference and experience.
>Discuss difficult or controversial topics like religion and politics, and discuss them at length. This will tell you a lot about what a person believes and values. It’s okay if you have some different beliefs in these areas (it’s always good to challenge each other and make each other think) but be aware that too many differences or very important differences can make more serious relationships hard or impossible.
>Talk about what they wanted to be as a child and what they want to do with their life now. This will tell you about their hopes and dreams, as well as what kind of direction they want in their life.
>Share their passions. Get into the things that they love. Learn to enjoy or appreciate the things that make them happy. Don’t fake it; people can usually tell when you are genuinely interested in something. Experience it through their eyes and share in that passion. This will give you something to bond over and can set the spark for real love.

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